identity

Issue #107: "I need to be a rich man" (and other truths about singlehood)

What single women wish you knew about being alone.

Jun 12 •

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Issue #86: How to be happy when you're grieving…

A 2025 resolution.

Jan 16 •

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Issue #85: The year I actually kept my resolutions...

And the *super* hard one I'm setting for 2025.

Jan 9 •

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Issue #84: Starting a Substack made no sense...

Why I did it anyway, and what it’s been like.

Jan 2 •

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Issue #78: Songs for a Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day

We'll get through this together.

Nov 7, 2024 •

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Issue #74: Does Substack have a jealousy problem?

Or is it just me?

Oct 11, 2024 •

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Issue #69: Talking to our favorite 25-year-old...

About how old we really feel, shopping, when kids should get their first phone, and more.

Aug 29, 2024 •

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Ochuko Akpovbovbo

Issue #48: Why I went back on Lexapro

And wouldn't try this again at home.

Apr 4, 2024 •

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Issue #47: I lost my job, but my friends showed up

And the final prompts in the Friendship Training Program

Mar 28, 2024 •

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Issue #41: Starting a Substack made no sense...

Why I did it anyways & what it’s been like

Feb 15, 2024 •

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Issue #04: Enthusiasm is (still!) never uncool

Using big words & being overdressed at a concert

Feb 1, 2024 •

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Issue #34: Makeup won't make me feel beautiful.

So why do I keep trying?

Dec 14, 2023 •

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