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Feb 29Liked by Aja Frost, Aliza Sir

I still identify as a Reddit lurker, but when I was pregnant I found my Reddit “bump group” - a place for parents having babies that month of the year. It was so nice to have a corner of the internet where people were feeling and experiencing the same things I was! The group is still active today and we’ve moved on from “why does this hurt” to “why won’t my child sleep” 😊 also +1 to the interior design subreddits. Learned so much about the best paint colors based on my rooms direction.

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I have heard good things about Reddit bump groups!! They're private and require verification of your due date, right? Really really love the idea of having a safe space/forum for questions, rants, validation, etc. during such a new, exciting, yet disorienting time.

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Feb 29Liked by Aja Frost

I love love this. Two huge recs:

- r/AITA (Am I the asshole?) for anyone who wants to enjoy Normal Gossip-style discussion of whether the poster is in the right or wrong

- r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix (or whatever reality show you love) for anyone who has exhausted their IRL friends’ interest in deep diving their favorite reality show

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Big big fan of the reality-tv subreddits; it gives me that "we just left a party and now we're going to dissect each moment" vibes.

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Perfectly put

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Feb 29Liked by Aja Frost

I love r/whatsthatbook. I have so many memories of books as a child but no idea what they are. People will help you find them.

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This is amazing

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I knew nothing about Reddit before reading this, and found it super-useful! I had the impression Reddit was all negative rabbit-holes and obscure obsessions, but will now embrace it as a great resource!

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Come on in, the water's warm 😊

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Reddit is my no. 1 as well. Mostly lurk but I love r/BravoRealHousewives and a ton of cat subreddits 😭

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Ahaha I love (but am not surprised) that there are *multiple* cat subreddits.

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as a new reddit lurker, i needed these recs

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Yay, glad to hear it!

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Mar 5Liked by Aja Frost

Two I love to lurk on that are just good vibes are r/CozyPlaces (literally just people posting their cozy spaces) and

r/BooksThatFeelLikeThis (you can ask for book recs based on certain visuals, moods, etc)

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These are very good vibes — adding them to the rotation.

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Would love a part 2!! I go on Reddit every day and got so many good subreddits out of this!

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I've been keeping a Notes list of more subreddits for a sequel — ty for the inspiration!

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Woohoo! 🥳

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Mar 5Liked by Aja Frost

I used Reddit so much when planning a recent renovation. The appliance Reddit board had employees of major brands giving invites to employee store with major discounts. I saved close to $5,000 using that!

Randomly I’m fascinated with a Reddit board for detectorists and bottle diggers 😂 I love seeing the stuff people find digging through creeks and mud.

Cannot wait to delve into these you’ve listed — especially the interior design help! I can stop bugging my sisters about tile.

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+1 on money diaries!

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Highly recommend The Purse by Lindsey Stanberry as well (she founded R29’s Money section and ran Money Diaries for several years!)

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Weekend plans: lurking on all of these subreddits

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Ok looking at Fridge Detective and extremely entertained

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Right?!

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I've always been Reddit curious - this is a great cliff notes to get started. Thank you. Any suggestions for fashion subreddits? I'm thinking Luxury Fashion, Retailers, Handbags? Also, Taylor Swift??

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Great question! I haven't delved as deeply into fashion subreddits, so would love to hear other's suggestions, but are ones I've explored and liked:

- https://www.reddit.com/r/LuxeFashion_NatFibers/ for people who care deeply about clothes quality and material composition — silk, organic cotton, linen, cashmere alpaca merino wool leather, etc.

- https://www.reddit.com/r/handbags/ a very passionate community for bags — skews designer, but all brands/types welcome. Well-organized with lots of photo posts.

- https://www.reddit.com/r/luxurypurses/ a much smaller sub-community focusing explicitly on luxury bags/accessories.

- https://www.reddit.com/r/TheHermesGame/ a fascinating look at how people strategize their way to a Birkin (!!)

- https://www.reddit.com/r/femalefashionadvice/ a large, popular subreddit for anything related to women's fashion; I don't tend to get a lot of inspiration here, but the discussions can be very interesting.

- https://www.reddit.com/r/Sneakers/ Reddit has this Sneakerhead community but not an equivalent one for other types of designer/rare shoes...

For TSwift, I do have to warn you, it's a more charged part of Reddit. https://www.reddit.com/r/TaylorSwift/ is the "core" subreddit; https://www.reddit.com/r/SwiftlyNeutral/ is for fans who tend to be a little more vocal with any criticism (e.g. you'll find people talking about her private jet usage in r/SwiftlyNeutral but probably not r/TaylorSwift.

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Yes!! Thank you. I just listened to an amazing business podcast on Hermes so I know where I’m starting.

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r/findfashion is great if you’re trying to find something specific that’s difficult to source!

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Love this as a new Reddit lurker! I've been in the luxury candle one but pulled back, lest I go off the deep end LOL - MF

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WISE I may need to take a breather as well. The sales don't stop!

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I'm new to Reddit but have been lurking there more often as I've been redecorating our living room. This is so helpful!!!

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Yay, glad to hear it!!

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Feb 29Liked by Aja Frost

I needed this!

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I only started using Reddit in the last year both as a marketing/promo tool and a place to do obsessive research. I am into it!

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